Communication is Key

So I’m listening to Lauryn Hill’s track from the movie Love Jones. If you haven’t seen it I encourage you to. My gf insisisted that I see it so we watched it a few weeks ago. It was a lovely choice! Today’s Love Jones topic, communication is key, is rather self explanatory. It’s true. [...]

Getting Along with In-Laws

In-laws are a touchy subject for most couples. Growing up, we went to my mom’s parent’s house much more often than my dad’s. As a kid this was an inconsequential bit of information but as I have gotten older and begun my own long term relationship, I have realized that in-laws are a  vital aspect [...]

Through Sickness and Health

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The air smelled like medicine there. The emergency room is not my favorite place. I spent about two hours in the emergency room yesterday. My girlfriend wearing one of those scary “I have a serious illness” masks, as we waited to find out if she had swine flu. Thank god she didn’t, but seeing [...]

Me vs. We

Time is such a fascinating phenomena. In an instant, overnight, I went from super loner, super single, super do whatever the heck I wanted type chic to being the loving, compassionate, happy and exclusive girlfriend of an amazing woman.
I spent most of my life living with the single chic mentality. Let me be a [...]

Destiny Does the Driving

Funny enough it has taken me most of my life to learn how to be patient and it is still one of those things that I have to be extra self aware of. I have little to no problem being patient with someone heck anyone else, but when it comes to.being patient with myself and [...]